For parents and caregivers
Healthcare and rights
What happens at the doctor?.
Knowing something about an appointment in advance can make seeking help easier. Your child should receive information and be listened to.
Understanding the situation
The doctor usually begins by asking about the symptoms, how long they have lasted and how they affect daily life. The need for examinations and tests is then assessed. Different examinations may be relevant to genital symptoms.
A gynaecological examination is usually unnecessary just to start contraceptive pills or assess common period pain in a teenager. If an examination is considered, healthcare professionals should explain why it is needed and how it will be performed.
Turning knowledge into action
What you can do
- Prepare a short list of symptoms, questions and measures already tried.
- Ask what support your child wants from you during the appointment.
- Encourage your child to speak up if worried and ask for explanations or a break.
Find a way to start
One way to begin
“Would you like us to write down your questions? You can also ask to speak to the doctor alone.”
Use your own words and give your child time to respond. A short conversation can be a good beginning.
More help with the conversationFurther support
When should you seek help?
Ask for a clear plan before leaving: what has been assessed, what happens next and when you should get in touch again.
See who you can contactContinue learning
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Sources and further reading
Sources were checked on 1 October 2026. The conversation examples are suggestions from Tidlignok.
- Helsenorge: Gynekologisk undersøkelse (Norwegian)
- Helsenorge: Helserettigheter for barn og unge (Norwegian)
This content provides general information. Healthcare professionals can assess your child's symptoms, circumstances and treatment needs.