Boundaries and relationships
Something has happened involving intimate pictures or online sharing.
Your child may be afraid both of images being shared and of how you will react. First, show that you want to help. Then you can understand the situation and get support handling it.
01 · Understand
What situation is your child facing?
It may involve requests for pictures, unwanted images, sharing or threats. Listen to what your child experienced and ask whether pressure is continuing now.
Someone asks for pictures
Your child may experience repeated requests or suggestions that sharing a picture proves trust.
A picture has been shared
A picture may have been forwarded, posted to a group or published.
Someone threatens to share a picture
They may demand money, more pictures or actions in exchange for withholding the image.
Your child receives unwanted content
Your child may also need help after receiving images or being drawn into a difficult conversation.
02 · Talk
How can you begin the conversation?
Start with your child's safety and needs. Offer them a calm adult to work with.
For example, you could say
“I'm glad you came to me. We will get help with this.”
“What happened, and what are you most afraid of now?”
“We can speak with someone who knows how to handle this.”
03 · Take action
What can you do now?
In situations involving threats or blackmail, police recommend ending contact, not paying or sending more images, documenting the incident and seeking help.
Get help with blackmail
Contact the police promptly. Avoid paying or sending further images. End contact with the blackmailer.
Document without redistributing
Record usernames, links, times and threats. Ask the police for advice about evidence. Avoid downloading or forwarding sexual images of children.
Report and ask for guidance
Report the account or content to the platform. Slettmeg can provide advice about removal.
Secure the accounts
Help set strong, unique passwords and two-factor authentication. Consult the police before deleting conversations or accounts that might contain evidence.
Follow up after the conversation
Ask how your child feels afterwards. If images circulate among pupils, the school may help with support and follow-up. Agree with your child how you will communicate.
04 · Find help
Who can help you next?
Seek help promptly with threats, blackmail or unwanted sharing. Slettmeg offers advice about online content. The police can help with crime and safety.
Slettmeg
Free advice and guidance on having information and images removed from the internet.
Visit SlettmegNorwegian Police
Call the police on 02800 for advice about threats, violence or abuse. Call 112 if there is immediate danger.
Call 02800Norwegian child helpline
Call 116 111 if you are worried about violence, abuse or neglect. Adults can also get free anonymous guidance. The helpline is available around the clock.
Call 116 111When it is urgent
If there is immediate danger from violence or threats, call the police on 112. For urgent medical care, call the out-of-hours service on 116 117.
Sources and further reading
The explanations and advice are written for parents and caregivers using the sources below. Conversation examples are suggestions from Tidlignok.